Tuesday, October 12, 2010

berjalan bersama


Sejauh ini setelah menikah saya mengetahui dan belajar sesuatu, salah satunya adalah berjalan bersama itu tidak mudah alias sulit, dan saya sedang belajar akan hal itu.

Untuk para wanita yang dari masa single sudah terbiasa bergantung pada orang lain, seperti orang tua atau pacar, berjalan bersama seperti ditatih atau digendong, dan karena sudah terbiasa maka hal itu pun menjadi mudah dan malah menyenangkan.

Namun untuk para wanita yang sudah terbiasa hidup mandiri, melakukan segala sesuatu hal sendiri, dan memutuskan sesuatu hal juga sendiri tanpa pertolongan dan pertimbangan dari orang lain, maka berjalan bersama akan menjadi sedikit masalah.

Akan sedikit sulit untuk menyamakan langkah, menuju ke arah yang sama. Dan saya sedang belajar untuk itu. Saya yakin saya bisa menikmatinya, karena cinta dan ketulusan akan membuat yang sulit menjadi lebih indah... halah...

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Wise Man Said About Marriage

Wise man said about marriage:

The ones destroy a marriage:

a. Husband :
1. does not functioned as a good leader which causing hurting each other.
2. fail to make his wife to be the number one person in his life.
3. comparing his wife to another woman.
4. is not discipline in controlling his emotion and bad habits.
5. fail in giving little meaningful compliments to his wife.
6. refuse his wife's suggestion/ ideas.
7. never ask for apologize.

b. Wife :
1. does not respect her husband as the authority in the family.
2. fail to bow to her husband.
3. fail to look attractive.
4. fail to show the gratitude for having her husband.

‎​Husband needs :
1. Sex.
2. wife as best friend.
3. clean and neat house.
4. attractive wife
5. respect each other.
6. supports and not compulsion (addition from me)

Wife needs :
1. love and respect/gifts/complements.
2. talk or chats.
3. honesty and open.
4. enough financial.
5. commitment to the family.
6. secure feeling/ protection (addition from me)

‎​Remember..!!
Being successful as the leader in the family will lead to other success,
and being fail to be the leader in the family will lead to other failures.

taken from milis loenpia.