Bisanya Mengkritik

Bisanya mengkritik... Itu adalah saya di postingan ini. So what!!.. this is my blog anyway!!!...

Malam tahun baru kemarin saya diajak suami ke diskotik terbesar di kotanya, memang pergi ke diskoting was my idea, which was a stupid idea. It was because, we would like to spend the night out, and the resturant were almost all fully booked, dan juga pertama kali ke diskotik pas malam natal kemarin, it was ok.

Komplitnya, pada malam natal kemarin saya diajak kumpul-kumpul dengan teman-teman suami di suatu resto, karena sudah terlalu malam dan resto mau tutup kamipun pindah ke diskotik sebelah yang mana diskotiknya kecil. Waktu itu sih diskotiknya cuman ada sekitar dua puluhan orang, musiknya enak dan orang-orang yang datang pun seumuran saya. Jadi I was enjoying, because it was only like talking, watching people dancing, and listening to nice music.

Memang sebelumnya saya tidak pernah ke diskotik, atau mungkin itulah sebab utamanya saya gumunan, dan lahirlah postingan ini.

Nah, pas ke diskotik kemarin antrian masuknya melebihi antrian kupon raskin. It was freezing also, tapi itu bukan bagian yang terburuk. Menurut saya bagian yang terburuk adalah orang-orang yang datang ke diskotik tersebut, mereka masih muda jauh dari umur saya. Saya tidak tahu persis definisi dari anak gaul di sini, tapi menurut saya tingkah laku dan cara berpakaian mereka sangat tidak keren.

I can see some of their underwear were popping out, dan warna pilihannya pun tidak seksi sama sekali. If I want to wear clothing which shows my bra, I will at least wear my sexiest black bra. I could see many mommy brown bras that night. Bahkan, ada yang memakai dress hitam mini, transparant, dengan rumbai-rumbai keemasan, dan saya bisa melihat celana dalamnya yang berwarna pink butek. Orangnya pun tidak langsing, dan tidak curvy.

If they were drunk since they left their houses, that would explain everything, because you need to get drunk to choose that kind of outfit to go outside your house.

Saya ingin menghimbau para wanita,
... please please dont try to look cool by not looking cool at all...

tidak perlu menjadi bitchy untuk mendapatkan laki-laki, ..
tidak perlu merokok untuk terlihat cool...
and please respect yourself to have someone else respect you...

sekian..

Happy New Year 2011

berjalan bersama

Sejauh ini setelah menikah saya mengetahui dan belajar sesuatu, salah satunya adalah berjalan bersama itu tidak mudah alias sulit, dan saya sedang belajar akan hal itu.

Untuk para wanita yang dari masa single sudah terbiasa bergantung pada orang lain, seperti orang tua atau pacar, berjalan bersama seperti ditatih atau digendong, dan karena sudah terbiasa maka hal itu pun menjadi mudah dan malah menyenangkan.

Namun untuk para wanita yang sudah terbiasa hidup mandiri, melakukan segala sesuatu hal sendiri, dan memutuskan sesuatu hal juga sendiri tanpa pertolongan dan pertimbangan dari orang lain, maka berjalan bersama akan menjadi sedikit masalah.

Akan sedikit sulit untuk menyamakan langkah, menuju ke arah yang sama. Dan saya sedang belajar untuk itu. Saya yakin saya bisa menikmatinya, karena cinta dan ketulusan akan membuat yang sulit menjadi lebih indah... halah...

Wise Man Said About Marriage

Wise man said about marriage:

The ones destroy a marriage:

a. Husband :
1. does not functioned as a good leader which causing hurting each other.
2. fail to make his wife to be the number one person in his life.
3. comparing his wife to another woman.
4. is not discipline in controlling his emotion and bad habits.
5. fail in giving little meaningful compliments to his wife.
6. refuse his wife's suggestion/ ideas.
7. never ask for apologize.

b. Wife :
1. does not respect her husband as the authority in the family.
2. fail to bow to her husband.
3. fail to look attractive.
4. fail to show the gratitude for having her husband.

‎​Husband needs :
1. Sex.
2. wife as best friend.
3. clean and neat house.
4. attractive wife
5. respect each other.
6. supports and not compulsion (addition from me)

Wife needs :
1. love and respect/gifts/complements.
2. talk or chats.
3. honesty and open.
4. enough financial.
5. commitment to the family.
6. secure feeling/ protection (addition from me)

‎​Remember..!!
Being successful as the leader in the family will lead to other success,
and being fail to be the leader in the family will lead to other failures.

taken from milis loenpia.

I went to Karimun

I went to Karimun like last week.. with my friends from Loenpia Bloggers....
I loved it.. I wish i can go there again with mipapito...
I cant swim but I was snorkling.. it was crazy.. I wanna go there again!!!...

continuing....

Daripada dikira ndak ada kamus padahal selalu ada kamus.net dan daripada dikira ngepost pake HP padahal HPku ndak bisa GPRS... saya lanjutkan postingan ini...

Well... it was six of us.. Me, Nina, Mbak Yuli, Ahmed, Yudi and Hatta...
as you can see in the picture, we took the picture on the floating motel.. it wasnt that nice motel.. maybe it would be nice if it was in summer.. well.. anyway, we didnt stay there.. we were staying at a ceaper or maybe the cheapest motel in Karimun.. it was cost only Rp. 50.000/ room, which one room we shared it for 3 peeps.. so each can pay like Rp. 17.000/ nite... cool dont u think so??.. u know when u do anything with me.. ull get cheaper in everything..

anyway.. we were snorkling.. at first i was afraid.. cus i cant swim.. but the boat guys said that it was ok, and what i should do was just calm down.. and relax... so i did it.. i did snorkling... in panic.. but then i can managed it and calmed down.. and i was very very much enjoying it.. the view under the water was soo beautifull ...
here are some pics that prove i was doing snorkling...
Can u see from the pictures.. that i look sooo happy????.. it was because i was happy.. so very much deeply happy...
and i wanna be happy again... maybe happier than that.. so i will go back to Karimun again.. hopefully with the person I love the most... will that be possible???....

here are some other pictures of me at Karimun island...


that the left side is just a pic of me looking cute.. and the next one is a pic of me looking cuter than a human should be... that pic amazed me.. im sure it amazed you too!!!...

ah yah.. I also did city walking at Karimun, and i found a souvenir store. i bought pearls earing and seasells earings.. see this pic below..
with those earings i look like claudia cintia bella... im so sure i do!!!...
sooo... get prepare cus im going back there again.. if u wanna come just contact me !!.. i love u all!!.. but i love mipapi more!!..

kumpul kumpul loenpia!!!!

sudah dua bulan lebih aku gabung loenpia...
organisasi blogger semarang... yang syarat gabungnya mudah, cuman diwajibkan punya blog..
waktu itu blogku isinya cuman tentang damir, jadi malu pas diajak gabung, takut kalo dituduh romantis.. weleh, ..
....

setelah gabung milis loenpia dan melalui berbagai macam perdebatan sengit antara sesama tukang loenpia, yang hampir semuanya bosok .. hehehhee.. saya kok merasa.... betah sekali...
apa lagi kalo kumpul kumpul tentang kuliner ato segala bentuk apapun yang ada makan makannya... hhmm.. enakk.. enak deh...

..pertama kali aku ikut kopdar diajak sama bunsal, kopdar pecinta photo...
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kopdar keduaku.. buka bersama di rumahku....
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kopdar ketigaku... kumpul di semawis...

trus tuman.. trus melu terus... trus tanduk.... trus ketagihan,.... trus muntah muntah.. trus kumat....

trimakasih loenpia....

... kata krisdayanti.. thank you so much i love you goodbye..


tapi jangan goodbye dulu.... ke karimun dulu yuk... piye???.....

reno & ajeng

this is the reason why i must go back to semarang every weekend,...

they love me soo much... reno likes to say "ning.. sini aja ning.. aku masih kangen kok..."...

and ajeng always smiles at me....

freakears gathering

Dear teman-teman freakearsku,

bagaimana kalo freakears mengadakan gathering setahun sekali....
nanti iurannya per orang Rp. 50.000, kalo mau bawa suami atau pacar.. tambah Rp. 50.000 lagi...
kalo mau bawa anak.. gratis...
nanti ada panitianya.. ditentukan siapa.. terus lets set the place and acara... poto poto pastinya...
kalo bisa pesen spanduk... "freakears 2007: get psycho!!!!"....
kalo setuju tolong di tindak lanjuti....

dan tanggalnya harus disepakati... setiap desember akhir pekan pertama... atau setiap november akhir pekan kedua.. seperti itu.. jadi besok besok kalo kita udah banyak cucu... ngumpul setiap tahun kan lucu...
mesti paling lucu mengko putuku... pesek mbek kriting...